Two Qualities Of Moomin
Showing posts with label Two Qualities Of Moomin. Show all posts

PART 2- Who have understanding of deen and Good conduct?


Link to  part 1

What is Al-Birrr(Piety, Righteousness)(In Urdu ,Naiki)?

Answer :
                       Sahih Muslim ,Book 32, Number 6195:
Nawwas bin Sim'an al-Ansiri reported: I asked Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) about Al-Birr(Righteousness) and Al-Ithm(Evil).He (may peace be upon him) said,"Al-Bir (piety and righteousness) entails good conduct, while Al-Ithm (sin) is what rankles in your heart and that you disapprove that people should come to know of it,"
"Al-Bir (piety and righteousness) entails good conduct", The word used to describe Al-Birr was "Husnu-khulq".Righteousness is to adopt the good character.

How to learn Good characters?
Answer by Ibn-e-Hajar 
-----------------------------------------------------------------------
Question : Tell Us Of A Person Resembling The 
Prophet (Conduct & Appearance)?
Answer : Narrated ‘Abdur-Rahman bin Yazid (R.A): We asked Hudhaifa (R.A) to tell us of a person resembling (to some extent) the Prophet (Peace be Upon Him) in good appearance and straight forward behavior so that we may learn from him (good manners and acceptable conduct).
Hudhaifa (R.A) replied, “I do not know anybody resembling the Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) (to some extent) in appearance and conduct more than Ibn Um ‘Abd.”
Companions of the Prophet – Sahih Bukhari: Volume 5, Book 57, Number 106
---------------------------------------------------------------------------
Abu Hurairah(R.A)narrated : Allah's Messenger (Peace be upon Him)said, "Indeed I was sent to complete the best of character." (Sahih Bukhari , Kitab ul Adab wal Mufrad :273)
It means Prophet (Peace be upon Him) had good character in him and he was sent to teach those  to People.
 Abu Hurairah (R.A)  narrated: Allah's Messenger (Peace be upon him) said," The most complete of believers in Iman (Faith) are those who are best in Character." (Abu Dawud ,Kitab-Us-Sunnah: 4682)
Abu Darda (R.A) narrated : I heard Allah's Messenger (Peace be upon him) say," Nothing will be placed in the balance heavier than good conduct, and a person with good conduct will attain the rank of one who fasts and prays." (At-Trimidhi, Kitab Al-Birr Wa-Seela : 2003)
 Abu Dharr (R.A) narrated : Allah's Messenger (Peace Be Upon Him) said to me, "Fear Allah where ever you are, and follow a bad deed with a good deed it will wipe it out, and behave with people with good conduct." (At-Tirmidhi,Kitab-UL-Bir-Was-seela : 1987)

Abu Dawud ,Book 41, Number 4782:
Narrated AbuUmamah:
The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: I guarantee a house in the surroundings of Paradise for a man who avoids quarrelling even if he were in the right, a house in the middle of Paradise for a man who avoids lying even if he were joking, and a house in the upper part of Paradise for a man who made his character good.
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Allah mentions the polite and soft-hearted conduct of Prophet in Sural- A'al Imran Ayah 158,
" And by the Mercy of Allah, you dealt with them gently. And had you been severe and harsh-hearted, they would have broken away from about you; so pass over (their faults), and ask (Allah's) Forgiveness for them; and consult them in the affairs. Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."

Question : How can we have good conduct with our family?

Answer : It's not giving smiles, speaking few lovely words, and other things which mostly people do.It's what ALLAH set standard of in Surah At-Tahrim Ayah 6,
" O you who believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who disobey not, (from executing) the Commands they receive from Allah, but do that which they are commanded."
"ward off from yourselves and your families a Fire (Hell)", We must stop  our families  to walk on paths which lead to hell-fire and do much efforts to make them near to ALLAH and walk on His path to save them from hell-fire.
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------
In sha ALLAH to be continued, with next Quality of Moomin ,"Understanding of deen".
Jazak Allah Khayr...
Spread the teachings of Prophet (Sallalahu A'lyhe wasalam).
Taken from :Tawheed Online

Who have understanding of deen and Husnay Khulq(Good conduct)? PART 1


Abu Hurairah (R.A) narrated : Allah’s Messenger (Sallalahu A'lyhe wasalam) said, “Two characteristics are not found together in a hypocrite pleasant personality and understanding of deen.” (Tirmidhi : Kitab-ul-Ilm :2684)
Imam A’bdul Rehman Mubarak comments on this Hadith saying,“Prophet advised Mumin’s to link themselves with two Qualities and He stopped them from becoming like Munafiq, who have only one Quality and not the other”.
This means a Munafiq cannot have both qualities in him.Only one can exist, either “Understanding of deen”, or ” Good character/Pleasant personality(Husny-Akhlaq).If we want to follow the advise of Prophet than we must have both qualities. In sha ALLAH
Qualities of Mu’min : 1-Understanding of Deen  2- Good character.
Firstly, We shall discuss about “Good character”.There are lots of misconceptions about Good character in our society.People think giving smile to everyone(including Non mahram),manners which WE THINK ARE GOOD,eat which we like but wear what people like and caring for others when they visit your home is,”Good character”.Such people show goodness in-front of people but in their hearts they conceal hatred and suspicious.But , let us remind ourselves that we must not forget the standards and teachings set by Messenger of Allah.Let us remove this man made deen from Mind and learn from the teachings of Messenger of ALLAH,
“What Actually Good character(Husnay-Khulq) is”?
Ibn-e-Hajar explains that Good character means:
1- To find the ways of goodness (Khair).
2- To adopt the Seerah(life) of Saliheen(Righteous ).
3-Purify your inner and outer actions.
First Point :“To find the ways of goodness (Khair).”
It means to find good ways.For example : Going to Islamic school and seeking knowledge is the way of goodness which you found.
Second Point : “To adopt the Seerah(life) of Saliheen(Righteous )”.
Allah says in Surah Al-Qalam, Ayah 4 “. And verily, you (O Muhammad ) are on an exalted standard of character.”
The habits, Kalam, and Relations of Prophet are standard for us and not better than anyone.
How can we adopt the standard character of Prophet until or unless we donot study Seerah =)?
Third Point: “Purify your inner and outer actions”
This means whatever is in your heart must co-incide with outer actions.For example : Some people meet with each other and compliment or smile but at the back one of them backbite.This is not Husny Khulq that you meet with smile and love but at the back you eat the flesh of your brother.
Allah gives us a KEY to unlock the hearts which hurts you ,betrays you or is your enemy.In Surah Al -Mu’min Ayah 96,
“. Repel evil with that which is better. We are Best-Acquainted with the things they utter.”
Be good with the one who is evil and leave rest upon ALLAH because the evil person have to payback  his words or actions on the day of judgement.
Allah explains more about this matter in Surah Fussilat Ayah 34,” The good deed and the evil deed cannot be equal. Repel (the evil) with one which is better (i.e. Allah ordered the faithful believers to be patient at the time of anger, and to excuse those who treat them badly), then verily! he, between whom and you there was enmity, (will become) as though he was a close friend.”
To be continued…………
———————————————————————————————————-
Please share with everyone and let them know the standard of character.
Jazak Allah khayr.
Taken from : Tawheed Online 
Subscribe to: Posts (Atom)

Disqus Shortname

designcart