You have been cruel [especially advise for caller to good]

By Sister Lubna Zahid


Judging or criticizing others has never been so easy, thanks to the internet, where everyone conceals their identity and shows their reality.


Surat Al-Ĥujurāt  Verse 11

O ye who believe! Let not some men among you laugh at others: It may be that the (latter) are better than the (former): Nor let some women laugh at others: It may be that the (latter are better than the (former): Nor defame nor be sarcastic to each other, nor call each other by (offensive) nicknames: Ill-seeming is a name connoting wickedness, (to be used of one) after he has believed: And those who do not desist are (indeed) doing wrong.
Hadith - Bukhari's Book of Manners #329

... Ibn 'Abbas said, "If you wish to mention the faults of your friend, mention your own faults first."
Dawud :: Book 41 : Hadith 4870

Narrated Mu'awiyah:
I heard the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) say: If you search for the faults of the people, you will corrupt them, or will nearly corrupt them. AbudDarda' said: These are the words which Mu'awiyah himself from the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him), and Allah benefited him by them.


The Prophet (peace be upon him) asked us: "Do you know who is bankrupt?"

We replied: "The one among us who is bankrupt is someone who has neither gold nor silver nor any provision."

The Prophet (peace be upon him) then said: "Among my people, the one who is bankrupt is the one who -- after praying, fasting, and paying charity -- arrives on the Day of Judgment having cursed one person and slandered another, assaulted another, and misappropriated the wealth of someone else. Then those people will be given of his good deeds, and if his good deeds run out before redress is made, then some of their sins will be taken from them and put upon him. Then he will be cast into Hell.
(Related by Muslim and Tirmidhi)



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