Types of Relations

There are two types of relations one is natural and other is chosen.Natural relations are not in control of human beings we get our uncles and aunts without our choice they can be good or bad in character but when it comes to our choice like choosing spouse or choosing brothers in laws we can do our best to seek proper relations . We can commit mistakes despite our efforts because we are not innocent.

But when it comes to Rasool salal laho aliehi waslam we cannot think for a single moment that he could make mistake in his choice after revelation of wahee.There are two reasons for this both are mentioned in Quran:

Nor does he speak of (his own) desire. It is only an Inspiration that is inspired. (An-Najm 53:3-4)

Bad women for bad men and bad men for bad women.Good women for good men and good men for good women . (An-Nur 24:26)

How can we think that naozobillah Rasool salal laho aliehi waslaam chose bad wives for him and bad husbands for his daughters.

As far as abu lahab and mushrik relatives of Rasool salal laho aliehi waslaam are concerned they were not the choice of Rasool salal laho aliehi waslaam .When Rasool salal laho aliehi waslaam decided his decisions were perfect and flawles