PART 2- Who have understanding of deen and Good conduct?

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What is Al-Birrr(Piety, Righteousness)(In Urdu ,Naiki)?

Answer :
                       Sahih Muslim ,Book 32, Number 6195:
Nawwas bin Sim'an al-Ansiri reported: I asked Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) about Al-Birr(Righteousness) and Al-Ithm(Evil).He (may peace be upon him) said,"Al-Bir (piety and righteousness) entails good conduct, while Al-Ithm (sin) is what rankles in your heart and that you disapprove that people should come to know of it,"
"Al-Bir (piety and righteousness) entails good conduct", The word used to describe Al-Birr was "Husnu-khulq".Righteousness is to adopt the good character.

How to learn Good characters?
Answer by Ibn-e-Hajar 
Question : Tell Us Of A Person Resembling The 
Prophet (Conduct & Appearance)?
Answer : Narrated ‘Abdur-Rahman bin Yazid (R.A): We asked Hudhaifa (R.A) to tell us of a person resembling (to some extent) the Prophet (Peace be Upon Him) in good appearance and straight forward behavior so that we may learn from him (good manners and acceptable conduct).
Hudhaifa (R.A) replied, “I do not know anybody resembling the Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) (to some extent) in appearance and conduct more than Ibn Um ‘Abd.”
Companions of the Prophet – Sahih Bukhari: Volume 5, Book 57, Number 106
Abu Hurairah(R.A)narrated : Allah's Messenger (Peace be upon Him)said, "Indeed I was sent to complete the best of character." (Sahih Bukhari , Kitab ul Adab wal Mufrad :273)
It means Prophet (Peace be upon Him) had good character in him and he was sent to teach those  to People.
 Abu Hurairah (R.A)  narrated: Allah's Messenger (Peace be upon him) said," The most complete of believers in Iman (Faith) are those who are best in Character." (Abu Dawud ,Kitab-Us-Sunnah: 4682)
Abu Darda (R.A) narrated : I heard Allah's Messenger (Peace be upon him) say," Nothing will be placed in the balance heavier than good conduct, and a person with good conduct will attain the rank of one who fasts and prays." (At-Trimidhi, Kitab Al-Birr Wa-Seela : 2003)
 Abu Dharr (R.A) narrated : Allah's Messenger (Peace Be Upon Him) said to me, "Fear Allah where ever you are, and follow a bad deed with a good deed it will wipe it out, and behave with people with good conduct." (At-Tirmidhi,Kitab-UL-Bir-Was-seela : 1987)

Abu Dawud ,Book 41, Number 4782:
Narrated AbuUmamah:
The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: I guarantee a house in the surroundings of Paradise for a man who avoids quarrelling even if he were in the right, a house in the middle of Paradise for a man who avoids lying even if he were joking, and a house in the upper part of Paradise for a man who made his character good.
Allah mentions the polite and soft-hearted conduct of Prophet in Sural- A'al Imran Ayah 158,
" And by the Mercy of Allah, you dealt with them gently. And had you been severe and harsh-hearted, they would have broken away from about you; so pass over (their faults), and ask (Allah's) Forgiveness for them; and consult them in the affairs. Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."

Question : How can we have good conduct with our family?

Answer : It's not giving smiles, speaking few lovely words, and other things which mostly people do.It's what ALLAH set standard of in Surah At-Tahrim Ayah 6,
" O you who believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who disobey not, (from executing) the Commands they receive from Allah, but do that which they are commanded."
"ward off from yourselves and your families a Fire (Hell)", We must stop  our families  to walk on paths which lead to hell-fire and do much efforts to make them near to ALLAH and walk on His path to save them from hell-fire.
In sha ALLAH to be continued, with next Quality of Moomin ,"Understanding of deen".
Jazak Allah Khayr...
Spread the teachings of Prophet (Sallalahu A'lyhe wasalam).
Taken from :Tawheed Online